No worries. I didn't take it personally. I just wanted to clarify that I wasn't trying to ask the "obvious" question- I was asking about way more subtle thing

No worries. I didn't take it personally. I just wanted to clarify that I wasn't trying to ask the "obvious" question- I was asking about way more subtle things. Actually, I wasn't sure I would get a response if anybody knew that there was a way to tell. But I decided to ask anyway.