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I noticed that too - I had absolutely no idea who pushkin was until I asked wikipedia. I do, however, know all the people you mention, and why they are known.

by mixmax 19y ago

I noticed that too - I had absolutely no idea who pushkin was until I asked wikipedia. I do, however, know all the people you mention, and why they are known. People are just different, and so is their taste in books. The idea of finding partners based on book preferences is interesting though. I would love a dating site where I could search for women based on their reading habits. I mean if I could search for women that liked Neal Stephenson or Bob Woodward I would be thrilled. So could someone here please make it? Please...

pg 19y ago
We'd definitely consider funding it.
- mixmax 19y ago
  With that disclosure you can probably be expecting a few applications for the idea :-) And I'd love to use it if somebody gets it right.
  - rms 19y ago
    Yeah... no reason to stop at books either, you could also do music/movies, all forms of media really.
    - johnb 19y ago
      although, to go back to high fidelity - the big discovery is that it's not what you like, but what you're like that makes a relationship workable
bootload 19y ago
"... I would love a dating site where I could search for women based on their reading habits. ..." Heard of this exact idea on popular media this week. Can't find the site though. So the idea while not original, is worth trying. How do you really know if a person is really reading the books they claim online though?
- mixmax 19y ago
  damn.. :-) You could do it with music as well - make a small app that scans through your music library and uploads it. Then match with people that have the same taste in music. Would probably have broader appeal, since more people listen to music than read books. Or has that been done too?
  - demallien 19y ago
    Delicious Library already does that on the Mac. Put your book/cd in front of the mac's built in webcam (or at least the barcode of the book/cd) and the item is added instantly to your library, with coverart and everything Very cool. So if you're going to build this type of web-app, you might need to talk to Will Shipley :-)
  - bootload 19y ago
    "... I would love a dating site where I could search for women based on their reading habits ... Heard of this exact idea on popular media this week ..." That's not a good reason to not try something - because there is already a service. In fact I'd be surprised if there was not more competition. Music is a good one. I'll see if I can find the service ... some time later ... There is an interesting article now on just this idea ~ http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=149467 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=149467
  - rms 19y ago
    www.last.fm, but it's one of those sites where people only incidentally hookup, like yelp.com
    - Tichy 19y ago
      I was thinking the same thing some time ago. But maybe it really makes a difference if it is a dedicated dating site? Probably worth a try. Any sites with an api, to tap into their data?
    - mixmax 19y ago
      Lastfm's user profiles are public and show what they have listened to in the recent past - so maybe you could make a site where you add your lastfm username, and scrape the info from lastfm and use that. There might be legal issues with this approach though.
pchristensen 19y ago
Not really a dating site but there is a book-centric social network site: http://www.goodreads.com http://www.goodreads.com . If anyone wants to look at my list, it's at http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1009306 http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1009306
elq 19y ago
> So could someone here please make it? Please... Agreed. Please make this! A friend and I were talking about such an idea right around the time Friendster was making rounds... and after running through lots of issues and the one sticking point was honesty - perusing friends of friends on frienster, I ran into people I barely knew - but I was pretty certain that they hadn't read "Foucault's Pendulum" or "Infinite Jest", etc - they were listing books that were "hip" (within certain circles). My conclusion was that Amazon needed to do this, they have a pretty full catalog of personality reflecting items for sale - and the key (in my mind) was that a purchase record was at least as important as a rating/review.
xoob 19y ago
If you only could cut a deal with Amazon to access their customer profiles...
bokonist 19y ago
In my dating experience, having interests that matched on paper never correlated with a successful relationship. Often it's a red herring that leads you to try and make something out of nothing. The girl you fall for despite having nothing in common is often the keeper, because the only reason you would fall for her is that there is great chemistry.
- mixmax 19y ago
  Interesting. If you're talking about books my experience is the opposite, for me there is definitely a correlation between reading habits and girlfriend potential. It has however changed with the years, when I was 17 the first thing I would look at was a girls boobs, now it's more what books she's reading. So it might be related to age.
  - bokonist 19y ago
    For me, as long as the girl is intellectually curious, the actual specific books she likes doesn't seem to matter.

by mixmax 19y ago

pg 19y ago

We'd definitely consider funding it.

mixmax 19y ago
With that disclosure you can probably be expecting a few applications for the idea :-) And I'd love to use it if somebody gets it right.
- rms 19y ago
  Yeah... no reason to stop at books either, you could also do music/movies, all forms of media really.
  - johnb 19y ago
    although, to go back to high fidelity - the big discovery is that it's not what you like, but what you're like that makes a relationship workable

bootload 19y ago

"... I would love a dating site where I could search for women based on their reading habits. ..." Heard of this exact idea on popular media this week. Can't find the site though. So the idea while not original, is worth trying. How do you really know if a person is really reading the books they claim online though?

mixmax 19y ago
damn.. :-) You could do it with music as well - make a small app that scans through your music library and uploads it. Then match with people that have the same taste in music. Would probably have broader appeal, since more people listen to music than read books. Or has that been done too?
- demallien 19y ago
  Delicious Library already does that on the Mac. Put your book/cd in front of the mac's built in webcam (or at least the barcode of the book/cd) and the item is added instantly to your library, with coverart and everything Very cool. So if you're going to build this type of web-app, you might need to talk to Will Shipley :-)
- bootload 19y ago
  "... I would love a dating site where I could search for women based on their reading habits ... Heard of this exact idea on popular media this week ..." That's not a good reason to not try something - because there is already a service. In fact I'd be surprised if there was not more competition. Music is a good one. I'll see if I can find the service ... some time later ... There is an interesting article now on just this idea ~ http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=149467 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=149467
- rms 19y ago
  www.last.fm, but it's one of those sites where people only incidentally hookup, like yelp.com
  - Tichy 19y ago
    I was thinking the same thing some time ago. But maybe it really makes a difference if it is a dedicated dating site? Probably worth a try. Any sites with an api, to tap into their data?
  - mixmax 19y ago
    Lastfm's user profiles are public and show what they have listened to in the recent past - so maybe you could make a site where you add your lastfm username, and scrape the info from lastfm and use that. There might be legal issues with this approach though.

pchristensen 19y ago

Not really a dating site but there is a book-centric social network site: http://www.goodreads.com http://www.goodreads.com . If anyone wants to look at my list, it's at http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1009306 http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1009306

elq 19y ago

> So could someone here please make it? Please... Agreed. Please make this! A friend and I were talking about such an idea right around the time Friendster was making rounds... and after running through lots of issues and the one sticking point was honesty - perusing friends of friends on frienster, I ran into people I barely knew - but I was pretty certain that they hadn't read "Foucault's Pendulum" or "Infinite Jest", etc - they were listing books that were "hip" (within certain circles). My conclusion was that Amazon needed to do this, they have a pretty full catalog of personality reflecting items for sale - and the key (in my mind) was that a purchase record was at least as important as a rating/review.

xoob 19y ago

If you only could cut a deal with Amazon to access their customer profiles...

bokonist 19y ago

In my dating experience, having interests that matched on paper never correlated with a successful relationship. Often it's a red herring that leads you to try and make something out of nothing. The girl you fall for despite having nothing in common is often the keeper, because the only reason you would fall for her is that there is great chemistry.

mixmax 19y ago
Interesting. If you're talking about books my experience is the opposite, for me there is definitely a correlation between reading habits and girlfriend potential. It has however changed with the years, when I was 17 the first thing I would look at was a girls boobs, now it's more what books she's reading. So it might be related to age.
- bokonist 19y ago
  For me, as long as the girl is intellectually curious, the actual specific books she likes doesn't seem to matter.