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I have also noticed this. When I was younger, I had 0-1 crushes at any time. But today I find beauty in a lot of different people. Maybe it's maturity, maybe i

by sobani 9y ago

I have also noticed this. When I was younger, I had 0-1 crushes at any time. But today I find beauty in a lot of different people. Maybe it's maturity, maybe it's the 'clock' in my male brain urging me to find someone, anyone, but like you I do enjoy this change. Maybe one day when I've fully progressed from the binary rating of beauty to the continuous rating I will continue on to the unary rating: everyone is equally beautiful in their own way.

RangerScience 9y ago
> 0-1 crushes at any time It's only this year or so that I've got 1+ (1-3, I think) proper crushes at the same time. Part of it is the "unbundling of intimacy" - if I like you one way, I don't need to like you ALL of the other ways, or be bothered that I might like someone else in more ways / more strongly.