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> Sat by while coworkers traded stories about sexual conquests. Even if the sexual advances are towards someone else, if they make you uncomfortable, it's still
by kyberias 9y ago
> Sat by while coworkers traded stories about sexual conquests. Even if the sexual advances are towards someone else, if they make you uncomfortable, it's still sexual harassment.
Not to belittle your other experiences, but I never understood this. If you hear a conversation about sexual experiences and it makes you uncomfortable, I don't think it's immediately sexual _harassment_. I would probably feel uncomfortable listening to those kinds of talks too but I don't think I'm entitled to claim it's harassment just because I felt uncomfortable.
- moron4hire 9y agoSorry, it was late when I wrote this. It was more like, "being belittled and threatened after questioning whether or not Pick-Up Artist style techniques were moral or ethical, or respectful of their existing marriages".
- kyberias 9y agoOk, that's a totally different story. Of course if you get threatened, that's some kind of offense but again if you get threatened after a discussion about sexual experiences doesn't make those threats immediately sexual harassment. Maybe you should also consider how wise it is to question other peoples "pickup techniques" or ethics of their sexual life without knowing the details of their existing relationships. And even if you know a lot of details, one could say it's none of your business really.