Why should it be justified at all? I feel like you're coming to logical conclusions based on all the wrong questions. ;-) Edit: Oh, and if you're actually in

Why should it be justified at all? I feel like you're coming to logical conclusions based on all the wrong questions. ;-) Edit: Oh, and if you're actually interested in wasting some time on a little literature you might enjoy some Alain de Botton; he's a logical ninny that's written some good stuff on relationships in a weird way of combining a novel with light philosophy. On Love is probably better than The Romantic Movement; though the latter paints a prettier picture of romance.