This was a nice metaphor, but remember!--matches must light candles first: "Oh, hard! that to fire others, the match itself must needs be wasting!" -- Moby Dic

This was a nice metaphor, but remember!--matches must light candles first: "Oh, hard! that to fire others, the match itself must needs be wasting!" -- Moby Dick (Chapter 37, Sunset) If you truly believe in something--be ready to lose a lot. One of those things you may lose is freedom from the scope and bile of other's jealousy.