It is sensible to thing the care about what other people think. We live in a society - and there are norms, standards, and values associated with our community.

It is sensible to thing the care about what other people think. We live in a society - and there are norms, standards, and values associated with our community. We shouldn't want to be people who can ignore the genuine values of our community. In many ways, I'm just arguing for "love your neighbor" as extending to caring about the values of your community - even when you disagree with them.