Some people might not understand this because it's better explained by simply experiencing it. It's an equally valid mindset just as the article's mindset, and

Some people might not understand this because it's better explained by simply experiencing it. It's an equally valid mindset just as the article's mindset, and just as equally valid as not having sex until marriage if that's what you choose. It's also very similar to fetishes -- experiencing it is just too different from watching videos or demos.