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To be absolutely honest I gave up on the idea of really good sex after 45. Enjoy your twenties and thirties. If you are in good shape in your 40's and aren't te
by fundabulousrIII 9y ago
To be absolutely honest I gave up on the idea of really good sex after 45. Enjoy your twenties and thirties. If you are in good shape in your 40's and aren't terribly experienced, ok..you may have some good sex.
My definition of good sex is uninhibited and athletic
with a committed emotional component.
There is a 'spiritual' aspect to sex that I have not experienced much but that is because it seemed laborious
and counter-intuitive.
- wsc981 9y ago"There is a 'spiritual' aspect to sex that I have not experienced much but that is because it seemed laborious and counter-intuitive." Just wanted to say this sentence made me smile :)
- srrge 9y agoI am 42 and having the best sex of my life with my wife married 16 years ago. The book The Enlightened Sex Manual [0] is a great ressource on that matter. TL;DR of the book: ejaculate less often, be more awake during sex. [0] https://www.amazon.fr/Enlightened-Sex-Manual-Sexual-Superior/dp/1591795850 https://www.amazon.fr/Enlightened-Sex-Manual-Sexual-Superior...
- fundabulousrIII 9y agoIf I married a woman 15 years younger than me and then kept the interpersonal tension high it would probably be great sex when it happened. I don't care for the drama and the WTF 'gtfo' nights when you are involved at that level. The whole ejaculate less and be more awake thing I can scarcely contemplate seriously. If all it comes down to is satisfying your partner while wide eyed and eager for 'great sex' you are sadly mistaken and won't convince anyone other than sad sacks looking for formula.