To be clear, my stance is that laws that make it illegal to be homosexual are wrong. With that said, in your example those people are actively breaking the law

To be clear, my stance is that laws that make it illegal to be homosexual are wrong. With that said, in your example those people are actively breaking the law and if you're using the internet to break the law today I don't see a lot of problem with the government tracking that back to you. My concern is large scale collection of records of acts which are then turned into crimes/persecuted groups and I think that's what people should primarily concern themselves with when it comes to the present internet privacy debate.