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> They are happy memories of event, not proof of skill. Aren't photos and videos sufficient to capture happy memories of events? I thought trophies were given

> They are happy memories of event, not proof of skill. Aren't photos and videos sufficient to capture happy memories of events? I thought trophies were given out for proof of skill / accomplishments. Maybe that's not how it works in the US. I wouldn't know, wasn't raised here, but everywhere else in the world, Trophies are not given out to all participants. Cos then doesn't it diminish the accomplishments of the winner(s)??

watwut 9y ago
Participation trophy is not for special accomplishment, by definition. Everyone gets it and everyone knows everyone gets it. Winner won and is fully aware, got winners trophy with '1. place' written on it and prize. In case of more important competition, it would be something real non-symbolic that winner can actually use (like a game). Unless we are talking about competition of pre-schoolers and such in which case fretting over -anything- is royally dumb. Thinking about it, the actual top prize is sport scholarship for college. > Cos then doesn't it diminish the accomplishments of the winner(s)?? No, your accomplishment does not count for less because other people got stuff too. However, your accomplishment depends not just on winning, but also on how important/large the competition was. Being first at local school competition is less then being fourth at more important tournament - just like anywhere else in the world. > Aren't photos and videos sufficient to capture happy memories of events? Who cares? I guess that they have also some selfies in that room somewhere, however less visible. I just cant muster any anger or resentment in me over somebody else looking at shiny cheap trophy over .jpeg or over wearing t-shirt they gave out or whatever. We are talking about community activities people organize because they want to do something for community, for club or because they want make kids to like sport they personally enjoy. It is not like they would be becoming rich on that (there are exceptions). I am not going to fret over their choice of giveaways. Nor start doom and gloom accusing them of destroying whole generation because of cheap shiny thing. I kind of acknowledge that people who organize these things do more for community then those who don't do anything like that and only complain. For that matter, to lesser effect, I acknowledge that kids who participated did better choice then those who never participated in any event.

watwut 9y ago

Participation trophy is not for special accomplishment, by definition. Everyone gets it and everyone knows everyone gets it. Winner won and is fully aware, got winners trophy with '1. place' written on it and prize. In case of more important competition, it would be something real non-symbolic that winner can actually use (like a game). Unless we are talking about competition of pre-schoolers and such in which case fretting over -anything- is royally dumb. Thinking about it, the actual top prize is sport scholarship for college. > Cos then doesn't it diminish the accomplishments of the winner(s)?? No, your accomplishment does not count for less because other people got stuff too. However, your accomplishment depends not just on winning, but also on how important/large the competition was. Being first at local school competition is less then being fourth at more important tournament - just like anywhere else in the world. > Aren't photos and videos sufficient to capture happy memories of events? Who cares? I guess that they have also some selfies in that room somewhere, however less visible. I just cant muster any anger or resentment in me over somebody else looking at shiny cheap trophy over .jpeg or over wearing t-shirt they gave out or whatever. We are talking about community activities people organize because they want to do something for community, for club or because they want make kids to like sport they personally enjoy. It is not like they would be becoming rich on that (there are exceptions). I am not going to fret over their choice of giveaways. Nor start doom and gloom accusing them of destroying whole generation because of cheap shiny thing. I kind of acknowledge that people who organize these things do more for community then those who don't do anything like that and only complain. For that matter, to lesser effect, I acknowledge that kids who participated did better choice then those who never participated in any event.