> good parents...have a system in place to catch these mistakes before they become incredibly serious. I don't think it's possible to come up with all possible

> good parents...have a system in place to catch these mistakes before they become incredibly serious. I don't think it's possible to come up with all possible bad things that could happen and have a process in place before they happen. Some level of reactivity is necessary. In some cases, one mistake is too much. Not having foreseen that one mistake doesn't make someone a bad parent, because it's human to make mistakes.