Is this really true? I'm Chinese and I don't know how true this is. (This is also anecdotal so take from it what you will.) I mean there's always the shallow br

Is this really true? I'm Chinese and I don't know how true this is. (This is also anecdotal so take from it what you will.) I mean there's always the shallow brutal truths ("you're looking plump" etc) but there's a lot of burying of truths about real shit/straight up denial. I feel like it's less about respect for folks who tell the truth and more about listening to your elders/your superiors and knowing your place in your family/society and being dutiful to that role.