I'm going to be the contrarian of the thread and tell you that children and family are the ultimate competitive advantage. They make you focus and become more o

I'm going to be the contrarian of the thread and tell you that children and family are the ultimate competitive advantage. They make you focus and become more of a realist. I say this as I have become a surprise father (we adopted a niece to keep her out of states custody, sad story) in May and something about having someone so tiny and unconditionally loving depend on you really changed my out look. It's hard to put into words how I feel and what's changed but my side projects I fiddled with now either have a purpose or they're shelved. I am of a singular mind to march forward and provide for my wife and child. I think that's what makes someone successful singular mindset and a clear goal and a family and child have sure provided that for me.