Fair point. Maybe instead: 'enough' questions? The point I was driving at is that having children is perhaps a default behavior, but the dynamics of our industr

Fair point. Maybe instead: 'enough' questions? The point I was driving at is that having children is perhaps a default behavior, but the dynamics of our industry (and of modern society more generally) have evolved so that the decision creates a lot more friction than it may have in the past. The questions it seems wise to ask (at least to me) are related to mindset and tradeoffs.