Not necessarily on HN but on the internet as a whole, though this applies heavily on HN: Like a coin, every story has 3 sides. Hear them all before making judg

Not necessarily on HN but on the internet as a whole, though this applies heavily on HN: Like a coin, every story has 3 sides. Hear them all before making judgement, and in general, opt for internalising judgement rather than publicising it.