There are many books on the subject, Models is a good one. I don't see why anyone would waste time trying to write some web page about why nerds in particular

There are many books on the subject, Models is a good one. I don't see why anyone would waste time trying to write some web page about why nerds in particular have a hard time dating. Social awkwardness is a well covered subject in this and many other books. Even better, it's covered by people who have more than theory to back their ideas.