> but there's obviously something more going on that indicates problematic life or business choices by multiple parties, which makes me feel less sympathetic.

> but there's obviously something more going on that indicates problematic life or business choices by multiple parties, which makes me feel less sympathetic. Correct me if I'm wrong, but aren't bad decisions (that is, decisions that didn't turn out optimally, not decisions that look poorly thought out in hindsight) a necessary condition for any person or organization to call for donations? I suppose the only alternative circumstances are that the site/business/etc just isn't economically viable. I'd assume most would be even less inclined to donate in those instances.