Yeah, exactly. That's exactly how I feel. If someone grabs a tab and sends me a Venmo bill, I'll happily send them their money. I would have rather grabbed the

Yeah, exactly. That's exactly how I feel. If someone grabs a tab and sends me a Venmo bill, I'll happily send them their money. I would have rather grabbed the tab the next time. I won't be doing both. (And vis a versa - If I say "I've got the tab" and the person sent me money, I'd be much less likely to invite them out in the future. I'd rather they just invited me out and grabbed a round.)