There's a famous Chris Rock quote about him being broken down on the side of the road. When he was standing there waiting for help, nobody wanted to help. When

There's a famous Chris Rock quote about him being broken down on the side of the road. When he was standing there waiting for help, nobody wanted to help. When he started pushing the car himself, people would always get out and help him. People love to see you helping yourself, and will naturally come help you if you are visible enough.