No, your point is "women need to change" while claiming it is a problem when women say "men need to change." I am saying BOTH need to change. I get that in an

No, your point is "women need to change" while claiming it is a problem when women say "men need to change." I am saying BOTH need to change. I get that in an atmosphere where most people are saying "men need to change" it is easy to fall into the bad habit of saying "women need to change" when maybe you really mean "women ALSO need to change." But you are not saying "women also need to change." You have made multiple posts here, and your position is very consistently that it is 100% the responsibility of women. If you don't mean that, now would be a good time to just say "well, my English is not so good and I must not be explaining myself well" and drop it, rather than continuing to insist I am wrong, because it is only serving to dig your grave deeper.