I think it's better to learn how to make a realistic empirical estimation of whether you're "above or below average" whatever that means in context, and recogni

I think it's better to learn how to make a realistic empirical estimation of whether you're "above or below average" whatever that means in context, and recognize when it doesn't matter at all-- like with driving skill-- than it is to just assume you're below average. You can assume you're a bad driver or assume you're a good driver and it won't likely make any difference at all in your life.