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Exactly. Judging their performance won't help. Offering to help them will. Also, it sounds like you're worried about conflict of interest since this person doe

Exactly. Judging their performance won't help. Offering to help them will. Also, it sounds like you're worried about conflict of interest since this person doesn't report to you. Would it make sense to approach their manager with something like: "I've noticed EmployeeX doing X at work. Have you noticed that too?" That helps see if you're in alignment with the employee's manager. Maybe the other manager has reasons for encouraging or tolerating that behavior. That's important for you to know before you offer to change it. If you are in alignment then something like "It reminds me of a situation I was in earlier in my career. Do you mind if I ask EmployeeX if they'd be open to some coaching around the issue?" That way you get everyone on board. Transparency and honesty will usually help diminish people's fear of "interference". And if the manager or employee aren't willing to accept your help or see things as you do, then it's better to accept that and focus on your role and responsibilities.

muzuq 9y ago
I disagree with this, and would be very cautious of doing something like this in a business setting. No matter how nicely you put it, you're going to come across as "I know more than you, I noticed this and you didnt, I can help and you cant". Especially stepping in and offering to coach, without being asked, in a department that isn't yours... I wouldn't like it if I were the other manager, I wouldnt like to see it if I was senior management. If your environment allows for and encourages a more open structure, where you're confident you're not overstepping your bounds, yes this would be the tact to take. Considering you have to ask HN if this would be overstepping your bounds, just don't. Just stick to your stuff.
- CodeCube 9y ago
  "in a business setting" ... I wish we'd all stop accepting crappy work environments just because they're a "business setting". There's no business setting certification that they have to maintain ... nothing is set in stone, and we don't have to accept stodgy work environments. If this isn't an environment where you feel comfortable talking to your coworkers ... then gtfo of there and find a better work place (not directed at you or OP, just in general :) ).
  - muzuq 9y ago
    I agree 100% and think that OP __should__ absolutely be able to approach a coworker and mention this sort of thing. But, in the OP's interest (assuming OP wants to keep job in good standing) I made my recommendations. "Business setting" sucks. I'm in a "family-like" work environment where I can approach anyone from CEO to Reception with ideas, feedback, or ask for feedback. It's fantastic. I wish all companies were like this. Unfortunately, that's not the case.

muzuq 9y ago

I disagree with this, and would be very cautious of doing something like this in a business setting. No matter how nicely you put it, you're going to come across as "I know more than you, I noticed this and you didnt, I can help and you cant". Especially stepping in and offering to coach, without being asked, in a department that isn't yours... I wouldn't like it if I were the other manager, I wouldnt like to see it if I was senior management. If your environment allows for and encourages a more open structure, where you're confident you're not overstepping your bounds, yes this would be the tact to take. Considering you have to ask HN if this would be overstepping your bounds, just don't. Just stick to your stuff.

CodeCube 9y ago
"in a business setting" ... I wish we'd all stop accepting crappy work environments just because they're a "business setting". There's no business setting certification that they have to maintain ... nothing is set in stone, and we don't have to accept stodgy work environments. If this isn't an environment where you feel comfortable talking to your coworkers ... then gtfo of there and find a better work place (not directed at you or OP, just in general :) ).
- muzuq 9y ago
  I agree 100% and think that OP __should__ absolutely be able to approach a coworker and mention this sort of thing. But, in the OP's interest (assuming OP wants to keep job in good standing) I made my recommendations. "Business setting" sucks. I'm in a "family-like" work environment where I can approach anyone from CEO to Reception with ideas, feedback, or ask for feedback. It's fantastic. I wish all companies were like this. Unfortunately, that's not the case.