Agreed, in that regard I didn't find that example in the article very good: > For example, if you were trying to impress a new date who wanted to go to the zo

Agreed, in that regard I didn't find that example in the article very good: > For example, if you were trying to impress a new date who wanted to go to the zoo, you might have to find a way to play it cool in front of the gorilla enclosure by using a discrete breathing technique. Instead you could simply say that you actually have an irrational fear of gorillas. Worst case the date is actual a huge gorillas nerd and that would be a deal breaker, best case the date helps you change perspective and at the end of the date, you're not afraid of gorillas.