You're free to do what you find correct. I've experienced first hand what relatives with alcohol abuse means. It's not good, even when you're "functional". Soon

You're free to do what you find correct. I've experienced first hand what relatives with alcohol abuse means. It's not good, even when you're "functional". Sooner or later the liver gives up, or dementia sets in, usually before 50 - it's ugly and I wouldn't wish it for anyone.