At the age of 41, after a decade of freelancing plus raising two kids, I am in dire need of leisure time. Ok ok call it midlife crisis. But I also see that in a

At the age of 41, after a decade of freelancing plus raising two kids, I am in dire need of leisure time. Ok ok call it midlife crisis. But I also see that in all my friends lives. I don't know yet what to remove from that full/filled life, for some leisure time.