> how can I still feel calm when I fail to support them If your family can't continue "functioning" (like in pay rent maybe for a smaller place, pay for medica

> how can I still feel calm when I fail to support them If your family can't continue "functioning" (like in pay rent maybe for a smaller place, pay for medical, pay for children's education) with only 1 active member working (your wife), you're living waaaay above the level you should be living at... Only one gaining form this is your employer because he knows you're "job addicted" and he can basically make you do anything. You're in a really bad deal, even if you're "livin' the dream" and not noticing it.