i disagree, although i don't look it as the dichotomy between "save your money" vs "spend your money on stuff", either. i don't feel like you should stockpile

i disagree, although i don't look it as the dichotomy between "save your money" vs "spend your money on stuff", either. i don't feel like you should stockpile your money for the nebulous future. yes, you should save it up to have an emergency fund. yes, you should start saving some for retirement. yes, you should save your money to make larger purchases instead of using credit. etc.. but you shouldn't let the drive to save money create anxiety and thereby lock you into a lifestyle. save, yes, but don't let the need to save dictate your life and your career choice. if you're much happier doing something where you don't have the $ to save as much, life will be much better.