> Except people can be generally shitty to you for most of your life regardless of your race or gender or any other label There is even more to it: people can

> Except people can be generally shitty to you for most of your life regardless of your race or gender or any other label There is even more to it: people can be just randomly shitty to you and use your gender to carry out the shittiness simply because you react to it. Female programmer: you'll never be a real programmer, male programmer: you'll never be a real man. The thing that matters is your personal insecurity, not the attacker's bias against any gender. Add the fact that some people are really allergic to others complaining about being oppressed for no discernible reason and you are on a straight way to some very unpleasant life experience.