> IMO that makes life a lot less stressful. IME shrugging of shitty behavior makes life seem less stressful for a while, but the hidden stress of holding every

> IMO that makes life a lot less stressful. IME shrugging of shitty behavior makes life seem less stressful for a while, but the hidden stress of holding everyone on arms length so they cannot hurt you takes its toll. Sometimes you break down, sometimes you just get cynical and start seeing everyone as an asshole.