Yes, dating co-workers is wrong. Yes, seriously. People who just work at the same company, no. Work isn't the same as school. I think males tend to be oblivio

Yes, dating co-workers is wrong. Yes, seriously. People who just work at the same company, no. Work isn't the same as school. I think males tend to be oblivious to the downsides of asking a scrum-mate out on a date. After all, it's not awkward for them. I mean, who wouldn't be flattered to be asked out by me right! Even if she didn't accept this time, she's really going to enjoy pair programming with me in the future. This is where the concept of consideration comes into play - a considerate person thinks about how their actions will will affect others, in this case the coworker you ask out or the rest of the team.