Cool to talk to the writer directly. You're first selected quote is indeed not gendered. I could not find your second quote. Perhaps that is from another pie

Cool to talk to the writer directly. You're first selected quote is indeed not gendered. I could not find your second quote. Perhaps that is from another piece you wrote? The article overall is very gendered: 14 instances of the word "woman" nearly all in the context of women being victims, none as perpetrators, and no mention of men as victims.