YES. I’m a software engineer. I’m a woman. I’m not a “female-software-engineer”. I don’t need people in HR randomly telling me that they support me (umm, thanks

YES. I’m a software engineer. I’m a woman. I’m not a “female-software-engineer”. I don’t need people in HR randomly telling me that they support me (umm, thanks?). I hate that the typical first question after I tell someone what I do is usually about sexism, not about what I’m working on. I’m not a victim.