Yes, yes, and yes. I'm a woman and a also pretty damn good software engineer. It drives me crazy that nearly every time I tell people what I do they want to ask

Yes, yes, and yes. I'm a woman and a also pretty damn good software engineer. It drives me crazy that nearly every time I tell people what I do they want to ask me about my experiences of sexism at work (I've never experienced that in a significant way). I hate that HR people constantly want to talk to me about how supportive they are.