You're making the assumption that not showing up at 9 means the guy is not motivated - which clearly is probably totally unrelated. Help him strive by staying o

You're making the assumption that not showing up at 9 means the guy is not motivated - which clearly is probably totally unrelated. Help him strive by staying open-minded. Something that will be beneficial to you: learn about Non-Violent Communication (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1892005034 http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1892005034). You're clearly making a lot of evaluations/interpretations, instead of checking the facts.