I noticed this after my divorce when friends and acquaintances started coming to me for divorce recommendations. My theory was that before the divorce, my frie

I noticed this after my divorce when friends and acquaintances started coming to me for divorce recommendations. My theory was that before the divorce, my friends would look to my ex-wife and I and say, "well, we aren't that bad and they can do it". Once we got divorced they no longer had a low bar to measure against.