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About sexism - I think it's a problem of culture in general - it is not socially acceptable for a young lad to approach attractive lady and say "I'd like to mat
by stefek99 9y ago
About sexism - I think it's a problem of culture in general - it is not socially acceptable for a young lad to approach attractive lady and say "I'd like to mate with you".
(it requires courage, game, pre-frame...)
All these VCs and senior managers - they are in position of power - too bad their sexuality is so oppressed - they should get some training how to tactfully deal with it, how to tactfully approach potential partners and maybe introduce "get out of jail free card":
1) I know I'm in position of power
2) You know you are attractive
3) We both know it is inappropriate
4) But hey look, I like you, we could create a great team
5) Because I'm biased I won't be participating in the recruitment process
6) Your recruitment will be purely based on merit
7) If you want to date with me, that's great...
8) ...if not - I'll make sure my attitude won't affect you
9) And BTW I'm in a dating season now, so if you say "no" it's not big deal at all.
That's 9 bullet points, you can add 10th just because:
10) I respect you, if you feel offended for any reason that's OK too (it's OK to be not OK). I act with the highest degree of honesty, transparency and integrity. If you decide to report to TechCrunch remember to get my name right.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Succ%C3%A8s_de_scandale https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Succ%C3%A8s_de_scandale - "there is no such thing as bad publicity"
- JoeAltmaier 9y agoToo bad several of those things are impossible - "my attitude won't affect you" - "I won't be participating in the recruitment process" - "its not a big deal". Because emotion is involved, there will be fallout from a 'no' (or even a 'yes'). And because of #1, they can't just not participate. Somebody will ask their opinion, or even take their silence as an opinion. There's a very good reason people in a position of power are strictly not to 'date' folks that work for them, or apply to work for them.
- stefek99 9y ago> And because of #1, they can't just not participate 1) I know I'm in position of power The moment the "get out of jail free card" is used, there are no further comments so that silence is not an opinion. > take their silence as an opinion We can improve the exact wording, we can iterate on that.