I've found this topic to be toxic only on the internet. Never had this issue in real life. Maybe because I'm not from the US. However, reading that you had no

I've found this topic to be toxic only on the internet. Never had this issue in real life. Maybe because I'm not from the US. However, reading that you had no problem discussing this stuff because you would not "stir shit up or play devils advocate", I'd say you had no discussion at all in the first place.