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>Similarly the fact they have to now choose between throwing away financial opportunity or acquiesce to this harassment And what of the situation in which wome
by nnfy 9y ago
>Similarly the fact they have to now choose between throwing away financial opportunity or acquiesce to this harassment
And what of the situation in which women continue to associate with their harassers? Do they truely have no liability? Why is it impossible to consider the possibility of some women using sex to get ahead? Why does this have to be such an absurdly one sided topic?
And yes, being lonely to the point of depression is indeed justification for making initial advances which may be misconstrued as sexual harassment, when monetary or other favors are accepted. If they do not cease when identified as unwelcome, they become a problem, sure. But the onus is also on the victim to communicate, and continued association is not only a mixed message, the victim begins to take advantage of the sexual tension by leading the harasser on and continuing to accept business favors.
In our rush to protect these women, whom we paint (unfairly and innacurately) as defensless, we only consider the imbalance of power and totally ignore the imbalance of sexual capital that is rife for exploitation especially by females.
I also do not believe that down votes are designed to signal disagreement.
- BoiledCabbage 9y ago> Do they truely have no liability? Liability in being the victim of harassment? > Why is it impossible to consider the possibility of some women using sex to get ahead? It's not impossible to consider this, but this isn't what is being discussed. > and continued association is not only a mixed message, And again you keep missing the point. Continued associated is a result of a business relationship. That's exactly the point. By continuing a professional relationship with someone does not mean you are consenting to further sexual advances that you've already declined. > whom we paint (unfairly and innacurately) as defensless Again noone is painting anyone as defenseless. You're view of this entire picture is skewed. It is about being placed in situations that people shouldn't have to be placed it. Or make decisions they shouldn't have to make. That doesn't make anyone defenseless. Victims of sexual harassment (whether men or women) have agency in life, it's just situations that they shouldn't be put in.