You should ask your female friends! In all seriousness. Maybe my basic advice is: Don't "proposition" people. Forget the phrase "hit on." Don't lead with your

You should ask your female friends! In all seriousness. Maybe my basic advice is: Don't "proposition" people. Forget the phrase "hit on." Don't lead with your dick. Meet people. Learn about them. Establish rapport. Maybe something happens, maybe not. When people are legitimately excited by one another, romance can follow. But be respectful enough to not cause harm. Don't interfere with their work life. Don't accidentally or purposefully threaten their careers or companies. Do no harm. Maybe you miss out on a romantic encounter or two, but you'll be a better person. You might actually get some really cool friendships out of it! And when actual sparks fly, you'll know it and it'll be great.