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> If the women isn't interested, you stop. I feel like this is much easier said than done. Emotions can be complex and fickle. Many books have been written abo
by Tharkun 9y ago
> If the women isn't interested, you stop.
I feel like this is much easier said than done. Emotions can be complex and fickle. Many books have been written about how to woo a potential mate. There have been tales of love potions for hundreds of years. The dating scene is filled with people who use subtle manipulative behaviour to score.
What I'm trying to say is that it can be very hard to know whether someone is interested. And the success of your wooing efforts determines -- retroactively -- their creep factor.
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- cushychicken 9y agoIt's pretty easy to tell if someone is interested in you. It's when you ask them on a date, and they say yes. If they say no, the respectful thing is to drop it. Do the respectful thing. This is really uncomplicated. There aren't any "ifs" or "buts" after that. The notion that this is the time to start wooing is absurdly wrong. That's the time to know you've been rejected, and move on. Accepting rejection, incidentally, seems like something many of these VCs have trained themselves to be terrible at professionally.