I don't understand the question "how they dealt with it." You deal with it the same way you deal with being attracted to a married person. You ignore the attr

I don't understand the question "how they dealt with it." You deal with it the same way you deal with being attracted to a married person. You ignore the attraction. It seems to me that every decent person must have urges/desires which they are better off ignoring on a regular basis. Sexual or romantic attraction needn't be any different.