From what I know, if you want to rise a responsible and 'good' human being you should allow it to be good and responsible in the first place. It means not cont

From what I know, if you want to rise a responsible and 'good' human being you should allow it to be good and responsible in the first place. It means not controlling. Controlling someone is taking over someones responsibilities. Controlling someone is making him (not, ir)responsible.