Using a throwaway because people are going to throw a hissy fit. Dude, you have family and your _ONLY_ responsibility is towards them. Period. How is this even

Using a throwaway because people are going to throw a hissy fit. Dude, you have family and your _ONLY_ responsibility is towards them. Period. How is this even a question? Get paid, during your "working time" learn something extra and increase your earning potential. You're in a very unique advantageous position, seize the opportunity. You're doing your job, you don't have to be some schmuck too.