I don't have data, I don't do research, I never read news regarding job/working environment in IT industry, however, I have a very strong feeling that you are c

I don't have data, I don't do research, I never read news regarding job/working environment in IT industry, however, I have a very strong feeling that you are correct sir (I'm not joking nor trying to be sarcastic). Most developers I've worked with don't have great personality and usually the women are the one who "break the ice", sharing their lunch ideas, vacation stories, etc while men are usually about video games and how .NET sucks, SVN sucks. Maybe it's just my personal experience... but most developers I worked with tend to be more negative than their women counterparts.