This is dumb. People lie to get what they want. That's both men and women. You can carve it up in to specifics of lies to avoid bad reactions, but when you s

This is dumb. People lie to get what they want. That's both men and women. You can carve it up in to specifics of lies to avoid bad reactions, but when you start carving it up the carving never ends. The basics is "to get what I want". There is core that is selfishness instead of altruism which I don't wish to take the time to expand on now. Ultimately you sound like you need counseling yourself as this smacks of the childish insight of someone who had their first breakup.