Americans as individuals are generally quite friendly, regardless of city. Let me ask you a loaded question though: Are you white? I am, and have had only goo

Americans as individuals are generally quite friendly, regardless of city. Let me ask you a loaded question though: Are you white? I am, and have had only good experiences both in NYC, LA, SF as well as a bunch of small towns. If you are not white, or dress differently, or are transgender, I can guarantee you which of a small town or a big city would be more embracing. (On aggregate, there are of course outliers on both sides)