I just turned 40 and in those 40 years, I have never gained a single thing from dick swinging. Rather, in that time, I have learned that the kinds of people who

I just turned 40 and in those 40 years, I have never gained a single thing from dick swinging. Rather, in that time, I have learned that the kinds of people who want to play that kind of game are completely useless to me and the path that I want to follow. Simply put, dick swinging comes out of place of low self esteem and a serious lack of confidence. We should feel bad for those kinds of people while also realizing that they are emotional vampires who will make us feel bad about ourselves. Invest in high quality relationships with humble, mature people. As you get older, this will become more important because it gets harder to find time to invest in personal relationships.