You might enjoy this speech from Angels in America [1] As I think it hits pretty similar points to what you're saying: labels are about power dynamics and much

You might enjoy this speech from Angels in America [1] As I think it hits pretty similar points to what you're saying: labels are about power dynamics and much less about the underlying descriptiveness of them. 1 - https://youtu.be/98fBiOVEcyI?t=250 https://youtu.be/98fBiOVEcyI?t=250