I read the same article. My takeaway was not "treat them equally" at all costs. It was "give them the same possibilities to have all the feelings". I don't thin

I read the same article. My takeaway was not "treat them equally" at all costs. It was "give them the same possibilities to have all the feelings". I don't think the feelings of being afraid or weak is biologically determined so I would help my kid deal with them the same way, by talking with them and exploring the feelings, learning how to cope with them, no matter what stuff they have between the legs.